7.04.2007

Silence Can Be Golden

Every time I go to send an email, or leave a small comment something stops me. I've decided to listen to that little voice that's whispering in my ear. I've written three carefully worded emails and started countless comments and each one has ended up in the "delete" box.

The lesson I've learned from this experience is simple. Sometimes you don't have to say anything. Sometimes it's okay to just disagree silently. The issue that I was having a problem with wasn't earth shattering and after I thought about it for a while I decided that because it was an issue based mostly in emotion my saying something would create tension and possibly ruin a friendship I have come to treasure. I decided that saying my piece wasn't as important as keeping that friend. It was a good feeling.

This experience has been a unique one for me. It showed me that those times when I chose to step forward and make my opinions known I really am doing it for a reason and not just to hear myself talk.

I guess you could call that maturity. Who would have guessed?

3 comments:

Suzanne said...

Hmmmm... that sounds very reasonable. Good call.

Whiskeymarie said...

I also finding myself thinking a bit more before I hit "enter" these days.
This has shown itself to be a wise move, indeed.

ian said...

Be as mature as you wanna be. Or as immature. Nanna nanna boo boo!

Ian